Many women, and for that matter, many men, are searching for their soul mate. When they approach me to be their Romance Coach to help them get married, they want to meet Their Soul Mate.
The first thing I recommend my clients consider in this QUEST for ROMANTIC LOVE is to understand there is more than one person out there who would mesh well with you romantically.
Mind blowing concept, isn't it?
Many, many people believe in the idea of "The One." They have an image of an Ideal, a PERFECT person, instead of a Real Person who is the Best Mate for THEM. When they do this, immediately they massively limit themselves from 1. getting more dates, 2. building their relationship communication skill set, and 3. recognizing geniune LOVE when it crosses their path.
Next, you must TAKE ACTION.
Yes, we are to be feminine ladies, and men ask US out. However, ladies, we MUST TAKE ACTION. Otherwise, it's a fantasy.
1. LOOK YOUR BEST! You don't have to be a GQ model or be a Super Model on the front of "Cosmopolitan" to get dates. However, single guys and gals want you to make an effort to look your best, you're very best you. Meet with an image consultant. Work with personal shoppers. Go to the salon and get a hair style update so you look your best.
2. GET OUT THERE! I will have this as a regular feature in my weekly newsletter, so you do want to sign up to receive that. To give you some ideas for now for more places to MEET MEN.
* Attend Business and Technology Networking events. Trust me. You would not BELIEVE how many more men there always are at BUSINESS events. I attend these at least weekly if not more than 1 a week. Mix it up.
* Attend a SCOTCH tasting event
* Go out to dinner with your girlfriends. I love to gaggle with large groups of my girlfriends and to mix things up. But really, when your goal (the goal of ALL your GFs with whom you go out, yes?) is to meet men while you are socializing with Da Girlz, then go in SMALL packs of women. It's too overwhelming for men to gaze upon a group of 17 women and pick one out. Now a group of 3... that's so much easier for them!
3. FLIRT, Baby, FLIRT!
* By all means, DO FLIRT! Flirting is an attitude and action. Flirt with your eyes, making eye contact and smiling. When the two of your speak, banter and also be mysterious, creating flirtatious curiosity.
* Now ladies, we can flirt in attire and in demeanor. Are you leveraging both?
Gentlemen, you too!
Look your best
Get out and meet people
and Flirt, baby, flirt!
And you'll be well on the way to attracting your soul mate, because you'll be being your best you!
Happy Dating
The first thing I recommend my clients consider in this QUEST for ROMANTIC LOVE is to understand there is more than one person out there who would mesh well with you romantically.
Mind blowing concept, isn't it?
Many, many people believe in the idea of "The One." They have an image of an Ideal, a PERFECT person, instead of a Real Person who is the Best Mate for THEM. When they do this, immediately they massively limit themselves from 1. getting more dates, 2. building their relationship communication skill set, and 3. recognizing geniune LOVE when it crosses their path.
Next, you must TAKE ACTION.
Yes, we are to be feminine ladies, and men ask US out. However, ladies, we MUST TAKE ACTION. Otherwise, it's a fantasy.
1. LOOK YOUR BEST! You don't have to be a GQ model or be a Super Model on the front of "Cosmopolitan" to get dates. However, single guys and gals want you to make an effort to look your best, you're very best you. Meet with an image consultant. Work with personal shoppers. Go to the salon and get a hair style update so you look your best.
2. GET OUT THERE! I will have this as a regular feature in my weekly newsletter, so you do want to sign up to receive that. To give you some ideas for now for more places to MEET MEN.
* Attend Business and Technology Networking events. Trust me. You would not BELIEVE how many more men there always are at BUSINESS events. I attend these at least weekly if not more than 1 a week. Mix it up.
* Attend a SCOTCH tasting event
* Go out to dinner with your girlfriends. I love to gaggle with large groups of my girlfriends and to mix things up. But really, when your goal (the goal of ALL your GFs with whom you go out, yes?) is to meet men while you are socializing with Da Girlz, then go in SMALL packs of women. It's too overwhelming for men to gaze upon a group of 17 women and pick one out. Now a group of 3... that's so much easier for them!
3. FLIRT, Baby, FLIRT!
* By all means, DO FLIRT! Flirting is an attitude and action. Flirt with your eyes, making eye contact and smiling. When the two of your speak, banter and also be mysterious, creating flirtatious curiosity.
* Now ladies, we can flirt in attire and in demeanor. Are you leveraging both?
Gentlemen, you too!
Look your best
Get out and meet people
and Flirt, baby, flirt!
And you'll be well on the way to attracting your soul mate, because you'll be being your best you!
Happy Dating
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